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How to Overcome Negative Beliefs

Letting go of negative beliefs is a powerful journey that requires awareness, intention, and action. The good news? It’s within your control!

Here are 18 proven strategies to help you overcome and replace those negative beliefs.

1. Identify Negative Beliefs

  • How: Write down recurring negative thoughts or self-talk. Ask yourself:
    • “What beliefs are holding me back?”
    • “What evidence do I have for these beliefs?”
  • Example: “I’m not good enough to achieve my goals.”

2. Challenge and Reframe the Belief

  • How: Question the validity of the belief:
    • “Is this belief absolutely true?”
    • “What evidence contradicts this belief?”
  • Reframe Example: Replace “I’m not good enough” with “I am learning and growing every day, and that makes me capable.”

3. Practice Self-Compassion

  • How: Treat yourself as you would a friend. Replace self-criticism with kindness.
  • Example Affirmation: “It’s okay to make mistakes; I’m human, and I grow through them.”

4. Use Visualization

  • How: Imagine a version of yourself free from the negative belief. See yourself thriving, confident, and empowered.
  • Example: Picture yourself succeeding in situations where the negative belief used to hold you back.

5. Replace with Positive Affirmations

  • How: Create affirmations that counter negative beliefs. Repeat them daily.
  • Example: Replace “I’m not smart enough” with “I am capable of learning and achieving anything I set my mind to.”

6. Revisit Past Successes

  • How: Reflect on times when you overcame challenges. Use those experiences as evidence of your capability.
  • Example: “I thought I couldn’t handle [past situation], but I did. I can handle this too.”

7. Journaling

  • How: Write down the negative belief and explore its origin:
    • “Where did this belief come from?”
    • “Is this belief mine, or was it influenced by others?”
  • Action: Rewrite the belief into a positive one.

8. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences

  • How: Engage with supportive people, read empowering books, or listen to uplifting podcasts.
  • Impact: Positive reinforcement helps shift your mindset over time.

9. Practice Gratitude

  • How: Focus on what is going well in your life. Gratitude shifts your perspective from scarcity to abundance.
  • Example: Write three things you’re grateful for each day.

10. Engage in Breathwork or Meditation

  • How: Use mindfulness to detach from negative beliefs and focus on the present moment.
  • Example Exercise: Inhale deeply, visualize letting in positivity, and exhale to release negativity.

11. Take Small, Empowering Actions

  • How: Prove the negative belief wrong through action.
  • Example: If you believe “I can’t speak up in meetings,” start by sharing one idea in your next meeting.

12. Seek Professional Support

  • How: Work with a coach, therapist, or mentor who can help you uncover and reframe deep-seated beliefs.

13. EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques)

  • How: Tap on specific acupressure points while affirming positive statements to release emotional attachments to beliefs.

14. Create a “Belief Flip” Chart

  • How: Draw two columns: one for negative beliefs and one for positive alternatives.
  • Example:
    • Negative Belief: “I always fail.”
    • Positive Belief: “Every failure is a stepping stone to success.”

15. Embrace Affirmative Action

  • How: Engage in activities that directly challenge your belief. Prove to yourself you are capable.
  • Example: If you believe “I’m not athletic,” start with a short workout and celebrate completing it.

16. Adopt the “What If?” Technique

  • How: Replace fear-driven thoughts with empowering possibilities.
  • Example: Instead of “What if I fail?” think, “What if I succeed?”

17. Use Hypnosis or Guided Visualizations

18. Practice Forgiveness

  • How: Forgive yourself and others who contributed to your limiting beliefs. Letting go of resentment frees you to move forward.


By consistently applying these strategies, you can dismantle negative beliefs and replace them with empowering ones. Which of these resonates most with you or aligns with your current needs?

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